School “Holidays”

When I was in elementary school, days off were few and far between. Sure we had the traditional Christmas break and we got out for Good Friday, but there was no “Fall Break” and we never got a four day weekend for President’s Day. We celebrated Lincoln’s birthday separate from Washington’s and I am not sure we got out of school at all.

I am struck each year by how many new reasons to celebrate there are for my children – “holidays” if you will. Sometimes I find myself thinking that there must be less to learn but, moments later, I am reminded that is not so.

Pinterest is no help in the matter; it’s part of someone’s masterful scheme to suck mom’s into the celebrating and make us okay with all the down time. Basically it gives us an excuse to bake something yummy and create something adorable. . . well, party on!!

In January we “celebrated” being 100 days smarter. That’s right – it was the 100 day of school and an excuse for me to make something yummy and something adorable.

Yummy:????????

Adorable:????????

Little actually had an assignment for the occasion and was required to create something out of 100 items at home. Example – a chain of 100 paper clips. Her project was great and she did most of it by herself. She made a poster with 100 Apps listed on it. She listed the apps and I typed them on labels that she stuck to the poster board. I was so proud of her work while struggling with guilt that she knows that many apps.

This weekend is Dr. Seuss’ birthday and at least one of the kids will be celebrating. KB was asked to wear a striped shirt. I wouldn’t be surprised if she has green eggs and ham to eat too. I guess I should go check out what’s on Pinterest for St. Patrick’s Day. . .

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Mission “Little Smiles” Accomplished

Yesterday my “little” girl turned nine! NINE!!! I am utterly dumbfounded by the notion. The day went pretty well – Little had a ball and will probably never know how close that ball came to being dropped by her mommy.

I have been thinking about her birthday for weeks but, like so many things in my life right now, I haven’t DONE anything with what I was THINKING. Little had said she wanted to take donuts to school so I knew I didn’t really need to plan far ahead for that. Gifts were bought so that was “out of mind”. What I neglected to consider was a cake. .. with candles. . .the traditional t-shirt, for Pete’s sake. So on Tuesday morning I had a near panic attack as I realized all that needed to take place within the next 36 hours to see our birthday girl going to bed with a smile.

(For those readers wondering if Little would have really noticed what was missing let me assure you that she would. She asked me about her birthday shirt, told me which wrapping paper she wanted me to use – the red with white swirls like Bubba had on his in August – and kept asking if I had her cake. I have succeeded in making birthdays a BIG DEAL.)

We were awakened by Little saying, “I had good sleeps! It’s my birthday! I’m nine!” and Honey had time to sneak downstairs and hang the birthday banner while Little and I snuggled and laughed. There were pancakes for breakfast (her request) and Honey scooted down the street to the new Dunkin’ Donuts to get the snacks for school.

I had finished Little’s shirt after dinner the night before and cut out toppers for the donuts while watching Body of Proof so we were right as rain and even got pictures taken before leaving for school!?????????? ????????

Traditionally, this is where I post the frog picture to demonstrate how little our baby was and how big she is now. I don’t think she has grown an inch since last year but I am truly shocked to notice she does look older.

1 month

1 month

8 yrs.

8 yrs.

9 years

9 years

 

 

 

 

 

 

I had to work at the school until carpool so when I got home at 3:30PM it was straight to the kitchen to bake a cake. Thankfully, KB was at a friends and Little and Bubba wanted their daily “alone time” so I was free to wrap presents while the cake baked. Coralie brought KB home and while we sat and chatted I wrote out a scavenger hunt for Little to find her biggest gift. After Coralie left I went and iced the cake, Honey arrived home and laid out all the clues while I made grilled cheese sandwiches for dinner (Little’s request).

Actually, right as I went to ice the cake my phone rang and it was my mom saying the family in Birmingham was ready to Skype. So, Little and I went upstairs to the computer so she could listen to my parents, 2 of her cousins, an aunt and two uncles sing the Happy Birthday song.

Once we sat down to eat all was calm and the evening was so fun. The big gift was in the bathtub and I sent Little to wash her hands after dinner. I heard her exclaim, “LOOK AT THIS!!” My heart sank a little – – but just a little. Seeing her with this made me quick to smile:

????????Meet Freddie Trievy Kicklighter. . . Little’s new golden retriever. Yes, he is made by Melissa & Doug. No, he can’t run or bark. Yes, he is our solution to the problem of no pets in a rental. She was beside herself. She wanted him right beside her as she opened presents. He slept beside her bed through the night. He came down for breakfast with her this morning. SO SWEET.

There were other presents too and most had to do with Leapfrog; that company should pay us.???????? ????????

 

After the presents were done we put the dog back in the tub and let Little go on the scavenger hunt anyway. She did great deciphering the clues and when she looked in the tub and saw Freddie she called out, “It’s another puppy!!”

Bottom Line: Our girl turned nine and spent the entire day with a smile on her face. . . right up to when I turned off her light and said goodnight. Mission Accomplished.

**This morning I awoke to Little asking me, “Am I still nine?”

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Updates from the Hutch

It’s not like life has been busier than usual but blogging just hasn’t been happening. It’s weird. I have several theories on why but all are silly since I enjoy this so much and haven’t been doing it. So I am going to drain my brain a bit while sitting here with my braced ankle propped on the couch beside a sick son.

1. Turns out my ankle wasn’t broken. It seems that the ligaments were torn and that was “all”. I have to tell you, it didn’t take the pain away to find out no bones were broken. The orthopedic surgeon traded out the huge boot for a simple brace from Sports Authority. I can get around pretty easily with Ibuprofen but the more I walk the more I hurt at night. Insert pathetic “woe is me” here.

2. We had two snow days this past week. These days came only days after a four day weekend. Yipee! It was like a miniature spring break. . . except with ice and temperatures that kept kiddos inside. If I am honest, I am ready for tomorrow and my kids going to school. Sheesh.

3. I’ve been working. There are the few hours in the church nursery but I have added Friday mornings at the school security desk and training to the new assistant librarian in the Fall. It’s funny – all these “mini” jobs touch on a different part of who I am. I love working with the kids, especially since most of them belong to dear friends. I love books and the library is full of books. And I love that I am told to sit still for four hours each Friday; it’s still and quiet (mostly) and I get to work on projects that have a beginning and an end. It’s not like I am threatening Forbes Top 500, but that’s not the goal.

4. My dear friend is moving away next week. I am sad. It is the second dear friend to move in a year and this one is just as “sudden” as the last. The main difference is that I have know this friend for 18 years and it has been such a joy/blessing to have these years to share life as adults. Don’t get me wrong, I am completely aware of how selfish my sadness is. When I am being practical and level headed, I am perfectly capable of being happy for her and this next step; they will be living so close to family and Dan will be doing a job he is really excited about. They have plenty of friends, loads of good churches to choose from, and and IKEA, for Pete’s sake! I am deeply happy for them. Very happy. (and sad)

5. This weekend has been a successful few days for our Little and bladder control. She just went to the bathroom for the ninth time. . . her own decision. Seriously, nine times she has said, “Oooh. I need to go to the bathroom.” and jumped up and gone. Don’t one of you even think anything but worshipful praise at this news. It is such evidence that our God is alive and at work. It is exciting to think that one day the $$ spent and diapers changed might be nothing more than a faint memory.

Well – time has run out. I need to get lunch for the kids who are well and some crackers for the boy in recovery. Happy Sabbath to you all.

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